A union called marriage
How would you choose your marriage partner if you don’t have one? Read more
Virtuous wife, blessed husband
Sitting on the terrace of a cafe, me and my friends were chatting and having fun until one of them told us this shocking story of a young couple. Read more
How to make your marriage successful: - Foundational marriage principles
We hope for a happy, fulfilling and successful marriage in our life. However, it doesn’t seem that we would like to pay the price it takes. Here are some tips to make your marriage successful. Read more
How do you treat differences in your marriage?
We all are distinct. Because each individual is created uniquely for unique purpose in life, no two people in the world can be the same. There are always diversities among people. In the same manner, it is not a big deal if you have big dissimilarities with your spouse. Even as a man and a woman there are major differences you may encounter. However, the big deal lies on not having them but on how you treat them. Read more
Do you want to save your marriage? Here is something you can do
I wonder about the setup of this world. You get whatever you want through patience and endurance. If you want to reach at any success point in your life, you have to try and try again and wait patiently to see good results. Read more
Whose idea is it?
“What?” You asked me fast.
“Good question.” I answered. Then I continued;
The thing that many people try to create and run it by themselves as if it was their idea and as if they can do it perfectly, but unfortunately they fail to do it. Read more
Our expectations about marriage
I wonder about the two outlooks of marriage; the outlook before it and the outlook after it. I usually ask couples soon before and after they got married. Before marriage I ask them the “How is she/he?” question. The answers look something like these. “Wow! She is amazing.” “He is a good man.” “I don’t think there is no one like him/her.” After marriage I ask this “So, how is marriage?” question. I get these answers. “It is okay.” with some reluctant tone. “I don’t advice people to get married.” Read more
Why do you want to get married?
Why do you want to get married? Most people get married for the wrong reasons. Read more
Are you a Good spouse?
It is common to hear the compliant of wives on their husbands or husbands on their wives saying that they did whatever they can to make their spouses happy, and unfortunately the response they get was not as they expected it to be. They may think about themselves that they are good spouses. Read more
Before you get married
Let me ask you some questions if you have a plan sooner or later to get in to a marriage. Ask yourself the following questions. They will help you to see your preparedness and adjust your mindsets. Read more
What marriage is primarily about
When I hear complains of most of couples, they are usually caused by egoistic thoughts. They expect much from their spouses and when they couldn’t find what they think they should get, they start to complain and lose interest on their marriage. They define happiness by having or possessing. But, happiness is the result of giving not getting. Read more
Your attitude towards your marriage
Attitude always matters. How you see things has more influence (positive or negative) on your life than the way things are by themselves. If you see seemingly impossible tasks as possible, then they will be possible for you. The creativities and technologies we see and use today are the results of the attitudes of people who see the impossible as possible. Read more